Flirting is one of the ways to get to know a woman better or show your interest in her. We all want to look cool while flirting with a woman instead of being too nervous and sweaty to end up in her apartment. Some advice given on the net offers you being all confident or ‘cocky’ to impress a woman but the problem with this is that some men simply lack confidence and there’s no quick and easy way to gain it. Besides some take their ‘confidence’ or cockiness to the extreme when they start being rude and repulsive. So here are some great tips to flirting right.
Where to start?
Women like confident men. And confidence is something that comes to you with time as you realize who you are and when you are satisfied with your position in life, society and your close surroundings. Confidence doesn’t equal cockiness though as many would think. It is a calm state of mind, which allows you to use your social and communication skills to the full. Confidence takes work, in order to gain it you should constantly work on yourself, your personality and solve the problems that impair your sense of confidence.
How to flirt?
When you are confident enough to approach a woman at the bar, street or elsewhere start a conversation with something general. Don’t rush into romance-seeking affair though if you are not sure about your partner. Does she want it? Does she make eyes at you? Observe her reaction to what you are saying, her body language. If you think she likes you get into her personal space a little. Don’t invade, but rather lean a bit toward her or offer to sit together and share a drink.
While you two are engaged in a conversation pay attention to what she’s saying. Women are seeking emotional response from men even if it’s only listening. Do not wear sunglasses or hide your face with other accessories as they will alienate you from her and your mission is to get closer. Eye contact plays a crucial role in flirting. Look her in the eyes but don’t stare at her all the time. Thus she will see that you have nothing awful to hide and you can be trusted.
Sitting close to each will make your communication much more intimate especially if you aren’t surrounded by an intoxicated crowd at some night dance club. Choose a quiet place to make communication easier, more intimate and pleasant.
Flirting tips from a confident man:
- Do not brag about your manliness. Show it through being a gentleman, an interesting person and a little self-irony.
- Do not feed her self-deprecating jokes too much or she’ll think you are too self-conscious.
- Be cool, a bit spontaneous and romantic. Women love attention, flowers, and compliments.
- A good sense of humor is always helpful but avoid tacky vulgar jokes as those can put her off.
- Ask questions and answer them. If it’s your first date or meeting you may answer her questions with humor especially if they are too personal and you don’t want to answer them, like, for instance, the are-you-married question.
- Delicately compliment on her appearance that will show her you like her, for example, you-have-very-beautiful-eyes thing but don’t go saying: “Nice bum, where have you been working out?” even if you genuinely mean it and want to know the name of the gym she visits. She may get offended.
Flirting depends on what kind of person you flirt with. She may want to end the game before you even know it and take it to the next level but she’s too shy to admit to it. Or she can be too polite to tell you to get lost. Again, learn to read her face. If she’s looking away and distancing herself from you the signs are bad.
- great tips on flirting
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May 11th, 2011 at 5:45 pm
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May 18th, 2011 at 11:14 am
Twittered.